The Spotlight of Youth

Something I've noticed for a while is how people's attention is naturally focused on the young.  Any accomplishments by a young person seem to gain more recognition.  I've always felt that if you do something when you're 20, it can be a big deal; if you do something when you're 40, almost nobody cares.  For example, thousands of people turn out to watch high school and college sporting events.  Yet how many people would come out to watch people in their 40s compete in sporting events?  Not too many.  Even if the quality of play was higher with the older participants, I still don't think people would show up. 

Some may think that this focus on youth is unhealthy, and that this happens because the media pushes coverage of the young.  I disagree.  I think there is a simple evolutionary explanation: accomplishments when you are young have added significance because you are in the prime mating years.  A big accomplishment can boost your stock so to speak, which can lead to more/better mating opportunities.

Therefore, from an evolutionary sense, it makes sense that friends, family, and potential mates would all be interested in a young person's accomplishments.  What I can't figure out though is why other unrelated people would also be interested in the accomplishments of the young.  I feel there is some additional type of evolutionary wiring whereas people are in general motivated to focus on the young.

Here's an example of what I mean.  This quote is by NBA player Ron Artest speaking about Kobe Bryant:

"I'm finished looking up to Kobe. That was a couple of years ago," Artest said. "There's new young guys in there to look up to now. Like the Brandon Roys and LeBron James and Dwyane Wades and O.J. Mayos. I would like to give those guys a little confidence."

Why does Artest want to boost up the younger players and disregard the older Kobe Bryant?  Again, there seems to be a natural inclination to devalue the old and focus more on the young.  Why, I'm not so sure.

Why We Write?

Here's a fun little article that looks at the evolutionary purpose of literature.  The authors believe that the function of novels is to promote pro-social virtues that will increase cooperation.  The study had participants judge characters from classic novels.  The characters interested only in social dominance were rated negatively, while the more group-minded characters were rated higher.

The authors mention how this may represent the values of egalitarian hunter-gatherer societies.  They believe that storytelling then and now serves an evolutionary purpose of group cohesion and group quality of life.  Modern democracy also could be a carryover of these ancient group values.

I'm guessing there is an evolutionary purpose to non-fiction writing as well, such as this blog.  Sharing valuable information and experiences can help others.  Personally, I know I have greatly benefited from the comments and discussions here.  The tribe gets better when everyone contributes in a positive way.

The Richness of Life

I've had some time off this month, and I've enjoyed it tremendously.  I'm always amazed at how spending time in a primal or natural way is so beneficial.  It seems that only a few primal factors are needed to make a day enjoyable:

  • Physical effort - walking and lifting
  • Sleep
  • Natural (paleo) foods
  • Family and friends

It's also surprising how the absence of things leads to a greater feeling of richness - the absence of schedules, deadlines, trivial matters, etc. 

I would imagine that our hunter-gatherer ancestors felt this richness on a much more regular basis than today.  I feel that the trends in modern society of more work, more technology-driven work, less human interaction, less leisure time, and more stress are robbing many of this enjoyment.

When things are right, when life is lived in a simple, primal way, the world seems wonderful and bright.  At these moments, I feel grateful and blessed that I have everything I need.

Externalities

Last week, I flew south for Thanksgiving.  Getting on the plane, I found that my seat was next to an older man who was obese.  The arm rest was up and his body was already taking up half my seat before I sat down.  I managed to cram myself in, but I was literally sitting sideways.  They even had to give this guy a seat belt extender because he couldn't get the seat belt to buckle.

Luckily, I saw an open seat and moved up before takeoff.  If I would have been stuck next to this person,  it certainly wouldn't seem fair in the sense that my ticket gives me a right to a certain seat, but I only had access to half of it.  But this experience is just another example of an externality (as it's called in economics) - when a person is positively or negatively impacted by another but is not compensated for it.

In this case, an airline could implement a solution that says if you can't fit into one seat, then you have to pay for two.  As far as I know, no airlines currently do this.  So in the meantime, if you have to wedge yourself into your seat, you're just out of luck.

This relates to a point that was brought up in the comments from the previous post.  The question is, if people demand junk food and the market then provides it, is this a beneficial situation (giving people what they want)?  My vote is no, for a number of reasons.

First, you could make an economic argument.  In the U.S., the obese and unhealthy need more medical care, and this drives up costs for the rest of the population.  Since insurance is often pooled, it is usually the case of the healthy subsidizing the unhealthy.  However, this is just a dollars and cents argument, and even if this wasn't the case (such as the obese dying young and having lower lifetime medical costs), it isn't my central argument.

Ultimately, my argument comes down to negative externalities.  In today's society, things are more interconnected than ever before, and therefore the various impacts people have on each other is greater than ever.  There are a million examples for this, both large and small.

Here's one example: secondhand smoke.  For years, I thought it was absolutely ridiculous to have smoking and non-smoking sections in restaurants, when the smoke obviously circulated through the whole place.  They even used to let people smoke on long airplane flights.  Then the science caught up and showed the damage of second-hand smoke.  Unfortunately, it's too late for the damage already done.  Memo to those who died from second-hand smoke: sorry about that.

What about DUIs?  Though police have stepped up patrols, I still read about drivers killing others via DUIs all the time.  There is no way to police every single person drinking at every single bar in the country.   

What about the current housing bubble that is deflating?  You can view it solely through an individual lens, and say that some homeowners got in over their head and now they're in foreclosure.  But what about the neighbors?  Take a look at Cleveland, where foreclosures are ruining neighborhoods.  Foreclosed and abandoned houses have increased the levels of crime and drugs in various communities.  The responsible neighbors who are making their payments on time are now saddled with low property values and bad neighborhoods.

Negative externalities happen all the time.  The government won't catch them all or won't catch them in time to prevent many troublesome or fatal situations.  Ultimately, I believe it is the responsiblilty of each part of the community (residents, schools, and businesses) to account for their impact on others.

I wrote last year about research showing that obesity is "contagious" - not in the sense of a virus, but that it is socially contagious the way it spreads through peer groups.  Again, we have a negative externality  - in this case, one person's decision to eat poorly indirectly influences the health status of others. 

And what about the responsibility parents have as role models?  Children don't have a choice whether they are born to obese parents or not, and the risk of obesity in these families is obviously much higher than average.  

If someone was living on a desert island and wanted to smoke, drink, and eat themselves to death, that would be one thing.  But if a person is living in a community, has influence as a peer, and is a role model to children, then their actions will impact others.

Companies such as those that sell and promote junk food contribute to this process and generate negative externalities in addition to their profits.  Communities are not compensated for these externalities.  In simpler terms, these companies are not taking full responsibility for their actions.

The World Before Products

I think one of the strange side effects of capitalism is how it turns information into products.  This is not to say that this is entirely bad, but capitalism seems to exaggerate things. 

In ancient times, if you needed information how did you get it?  You simply asked someone.  And since this person was part of the same community you were, they most likely would just tell you, for free.  Nowadays, information has become a business, and predictably, the predators have entered the market.  Everyone is selling e-books, memberships, etc., all driven by big hype that probably delivers little results. 

Certainly, if someone puts a lot of effort into something, like for example publishes a book, this package of information now has increased value - it's a permanent reference that can be utilized for many years.    But just to provide information or answer a question, this seems more like a natural responsibility of living on this planet to me - not a business proposition.

It's hard to even imagine, but there was once a world without products.  People got the information they needed (right or wrong) from family, friends, and the community.  If you contributed information, you were simply doing your part - provinding guidance to others so that the community would continue to survive and prosper.

Let The Good Times Roll

I was listening to an interview with an artist on the radio yesterday.  She was asked about her basic life philosophy, and she said something along the lines of, "I think we're here to have a good time.  I don't think we're here to suffer or anything like that."

I immediately thought: what a refreshing outlook!  And to say it with such openness and ease. There are so many martyr-driven philosophies out there that just make no sense to me.  Some believe that suffering is good, suffering builds character, or that suffering now leads to happiness in eternal life.  Nonsense!  A negative is a negative.  What humans have is the ability to rationalize events to fit things in their worldview.

Given the choice between a positive and a negative event, who in their right mind who choose a negative event?  I'll take all the positive events and good feelings I can get in this lifetime.  Besides, positive feelings often mean you are acting in evolutionary-beneficial ways.  So as long as I'm around, I say let the good times roll.

Commercialization

A lot of website owners probably struggle with the issue of commercialization.  Once a website gets hits, then the questions begin: should a person somehow try to capitalize on these hits and turn them into cash?

There are many facets to this.  The first, and one I think that is often overlooked, is that sometimes a website gets big hits because it's non-commercial.  If a person is simply blogging for enjoyment and to share knowledge, this authenticity attracts people to some degree.  Most people are a bit jaded after all the bogus sales pitches they've heard over a lifetime, and it can be refreshing to hear from someone who has nothing to sell.

Second, financial incentives definitely can alter a writer's behavior.  If consumers are paying money for a website, then they will come to expect certain things from the producer.  And now blogging can turn into a job, which can affect the quality of the information produced.  I would rather write when I feel fresh and because I want to, not because I feel pressured to.

Third, why do websites "have" to make money?  I don't think it's about literally needing more money.  Most bloggers aren't begging on the street corner for change.  Many companies offer free blogs and the costs of additional hosting space is minimal.

I think the hidden issue in all this is entitlement.  If a person puts in effort and produces something of value, then there is the feeling that they should be entitled to some reward.  I have to admit, I felt this way when I was getting this blog started.  But there are many different types of rewards besides financial ones.

In terms of evolution, this is "recipriocal altrusim".  In other words, people help others and then in a roundabout way they are eventually rewarded.  In hunter-gatherer tribes, this might have been gifts in terms of food or status within the tribe.  Or in the simplest way, people just said "thanks."

As such, this is the fuel for my blog, not money.  Repeat visitors and the occassional good word is enough to let me know that I'm doing something right.  If someone else wants to charge for their website or run ads, it's their prerogative.  I don't think it's immoral or bad, but it's maybe an issue they haven't thought all the way through. 

The Excuse Factory

One behavior I see time and time again is the ability of people to create excuses.  For example, I've seen this in all kinds of work settings over the years.  One person says a certain change can't happen.  Yet if they leave the position and someone else comes in, then the change often magically happens.

People make a lot of excuses when they don't want to change.  I ran into this a good bit when I was teaching college also.  I would always start off each semester with what I called the "$100,000" question.  I asked the students that if they would be rewarded with $100,000 if they got an A in the class, how many thought they could accomplish it.  Almost all hands went up every time.  But of course, not everyone got A's.  So to me, it was primarily a motivation problem: they had the ability to achieve the goal, but the motivation wasn't clear or strong enough over the course of a semester.

This same problem of course happens with weight loss.  Plans are made and broken.  And if a person is called out on it, they will often fire up the "excuse factory" and continue creating excuses until they create a semi-plausible one.

I think it's better to be honest about these things.  If a person tries something and it doesn't work, well then just try again or try a different method.  There's no need to cover things up with a web of excuses.  It's really a matter of taking responsibility: each person is captain of their own ship. 

Trajectories

I think it is relatively easy to see a person's "life trajectory" once you get to know them.  I believe you can predict with a fairly high degree of accuracy where a person will be in 5 or 10 years.  This is good if a person is on a positive trajectory, but not so good when he or she is not headed in the right direction.

What's more difficult is to predict your own trajectory.  I think there are all kinds of biases and self-perception issues that make it difficult to predict your own future.  But a friend from the outside could probably do it pretty well.

What's even trickier, I think, is to change your own trajectory.  It seems to take a massive amount of energy to get things going in a different direction.  Maybe it's force of habit, I don't know.  But it all goes back to that simple saying: "if you always do the same thing, don't expect any different results."

TV vs People

Here is a longer paper(pdf) about how television viewing affects life satisfaction.  Only economists would phrase things this way, but they believe that tv replaces "relational goods" or in other words, relationships.

The paper goes on to state that tv creates a network of virtual relationships that actually replaces real social relationships.  This can help explain why rising incomes in developed countries do not lead to more happiness.  People spend their money and time on tv-type entertainment and invest less in relationships.

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